True Arminian Grace
I have already written recently on the total free-ness of grace (You received without paying; give without pay’ Matthew 10:8), and at the same time I was kind of commenting on the cheapness of Arminian grace. CH Spurgeon liked this subject, and he even wrote a mock-prayer of an Arminian who supposed himself to be the real arbiter of grace in his life. Well I really want to linger on Arminian grace for a while longer and put it into real, practical terms. I want to include two similar responses/objections to entirely free grace that stem from an Arminian attitude of grace. Here’s what two good brothers have said in response to my writings on the free-ness and effectual sufficiency of grace:
Brother 1: I think you try too hard to ignore the will that God gave us. Yes God is all-powerful and is ultimately in control of everything, but you can’t ignore the small will that God gave us. We make decisions everyday, whether good or evil or even sometimes neutral. And I’m not taking anything away from the fact that God gives us salvation and life and so forth. It’s just that you can’t look past our own freewill. “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” I mean lets be real, you are the one ultimately choosing to be proud or humble.
Brother 2: Yes God’s Grace is free, but do you think that you get it without asking? Do you think that you don’t really have to be saved, that once you die he’ll just hand it to you and say “Way to live it up and be the worst you could be. I know you never wanted this or asked for it but here’s my free Grace!” That is just what you appear to be saying, not just here, but anytime I have talked with you. You say it has nothing to do with us, not even our asking. I agree that Grace is undeserved totally, but you asked to receive it, did you not?
Well why would Jesus die on the cross at all? Nobody asked him to–I mean, except for God. And except that he laid it down of his own accord (not of yours, or mine, or any man’s). Arminian grace would need for us to ask Jesus to die before he even died, or else what? Or else maybe… ‘God will just hand you his grace without you asking for it’? I intend to point out how the Arminian person can hold this belief of asked for, cheap grace in regard to God’s treatment of us with grace, but completely contradict it in the way they would agree that grace, a grace that is real, free and un-asked for is expected in regard to how a Christian must treat others.
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One day an Arminian, let’s call him JP, walks with his non-Christian friend, let’s call him RJ, after their class that they have together. RJ has been walking slowly, hands in his pockets and looking at his feet.
‘What’s wrong, dude?’ says JP in a jovial way, ‘Didn’t get what you wanted on that paper?’
‘I wish you’d shut up, JP,’ replied RJ through clenched teeth, ‘this time it’s something that no amount of your talking about your stupid God can fix.’
JP stopped walking, and asked with a genuine, honest concern, ‘Hey, come on now, seriously what’s up RJ?’
RJ walked on a little further, dug his hands in his pockets and spun around facing JP right in the face.
‘I found out this morning that my brother was in a car accident last night. He drowned, trapped in his truck, in the bottom of the river.’
‘…RJ, I’m so sorry,’
‘Stuff it, man! I know what you’re going to say, like you always do, that evil is everywhere because that’s what man chose to live with in this world, and that we could have been in paradise with God but because we blew it, we have to live with sin and death. Well you know what? I reject that fairy tale, man! What kind of sick God would torture us like this!?’
‘No, no no… you don’t get it… it’s not God’s fault things like this happen, he doesn’t ever want them to. In fact, God sent Jesus his only Son to fix what’s wrong with us, so we can be forgiven and be right again with God!’
‘Yeah, you’ve told me that before and I said I wasn’t interested. I wish you’d stop talking about Jesus and actually let yourself experience life, instead of hiding behind some fairy-tale. Don’t you know that the Bible was written by men who were trying to control the lower classes? I mean, how could you even believe that garbage? It’s like, scientifically proven wrong…–hu, I mean, really man! Now is NOT the time, for real, I’m not in the mood for this, you arrogant punk… you bleeding, arrogant, self-righteous, ignorant bible-beater.’
JP’s mouth seemed to dry out, and he suddenly became aware that he had been looking at RJ with a concentrated, almost verging on angry looking expression. He had been praying. He had been thinking with all inside of him how to use his words to point RJ to Jesus. Finally, he breathed out heavily and said,
‘RJ, listen for a second. I am not the issue, your brother is not the issue, evil is not the issue, and you are not even the issue, but listen, this is what is said in the scripture about a Living God who saves and is worthy of our worship…’
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The story is just a demonstration of the way we all know we are to show grace to each other. You could tell a thousand other stories, of parents and children, pastors and church members, husbands and wives… and situations where pain and offense is done, but where someone has acted in a gracious way to show mercy when the other had no intention of seeking it. What, are we to think that JP should wait for RJ to ask for him to be a loving friend? Or is JP to be gracious even when provoked not to be… to show mercy and love even when it is unasked for and undesired. The fact that JP shows mercy despite opposition is what makes it grace! JP doesn’t wait around for RJ to feel like accepting grace, because that would never happen… and if it ever did, it would no longer be grace for JP to show compassion, because it was asked for.
Don’t forget Romans 5. Not ony when we were weak, at the right time Christ died for us, but when we were sinners. When we were weak and sinners, and unable to ask. Arminian grace teaches rising up to the challenge to lay hold of a salvation that’s being held over our heads, the grasping of grants entitlement, where grace is a medium or helper for our wills. Biblical grace teaches us to be cast down, face to the ground, empty of any confidence in the flesh, completely dependant on grace.
Of course, Arminians explain this away with John 6.
- ‘The Father draws you, then you have to accept’ they will say.
John 6 does say that nobody can come to Jesus unless the Father draws him. Then, would not salvation be dependant upon whom God has soveriegnly chosen to… draw?
- The Arminian would say ‘God draws everyone, but it’s still up to us because many people reject God’.
That theory falls apart as soon as you, well, finish reading the verse, ‘No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him. And I will raise him up on the last day.’ John 6:44. Raise up on the last day is the definite term for salvation.
- The Arminian (who holds that the final acceptance of man is the key to salvation, and therefore must believe that God draws many if not all men worldwide, but some chose not to believe), would not confess to being a Universalist and say that all people on earth will be saved. The Arminian admits that there will be many who will not be saved. Then who, according to John 6. is Jesus raising up on the last day, not casting out?
All who the Father draws. Jesus says he will not lose one. There is no room in this picture that John 6 paints of salvation for Arminian grace. You cannot come to Jesus unless the Father draws you, and all the Father draws will be raised up. There is no group that the Father may draw and they reject his grace. That’s because grace is effectual. The decision is the Father’s, not ours.
This is the way we are when God shows us grace; it does not ‘come down’ to our final decision. Brother 1, I hope you notice that in your own words, you say at the start that everything is ‘ultimately’ in God’s control, yet you end the very same thought by saying that we are ‘ultimately’ choosing. How can both be ‘ultimately’ choosing? That doesns’t make any sense.
Brothers and sisters, let us believe in a God who’s grace is in the form of an effective, sufficient work of specific redemption, and not in the form of a blanket, open general feeling for mankind that may be effective or may not be effective.



